Many of us have difficulty answering our own question, `My friend is heartbroken, how should I comfort him or her?`.
Everyone has their own personality and not everyone adapts to the same type of comfort, remember that the art of communication is to diagnose the right illness to prescribe effective medicine!
Let’s pretend not to know
Some people, when they are heartbroken, hope that their friends will still be by their side like before, talk like before and behave like before.
Also, don’t say too many comforting words in front of them.
As a friend, if you know clearly that you won’t know what to do when facing your friend who is falling in love, then don’t appear in front of them, your clumsy appearance will only make them more upset.
Be `wild` with them
There are always people who, after breaking up with their love, will rush into eating like crazy, playing like crazy, no matter what, they cannot avoid one word that others give them: Extravagant!
As a friend in particular and in social relationships in general, many rules of the art of communication always advise us to remember a few details in their lives, whether they are crazy happy or not.
Take a walk with them
There are some people who, when they are heartbroken, will not be extremely sad, nor will they have crazy fun.
In a case like this, it’s best to go for a walk with them or go on a trip, they just need you to help them shift their attention.
Time will heal all wounds. Besides the heartbroken person, no one can help them.
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